Πέμπτη, 29 Νοεμβρίου 2007

THE TRUTH IS RARELY PURE AND NEVER SIMPLE (Oscar Wilde)


Yes my friends, from time to time, our relationships can become complicated and complex full of contradictions and inconsistencies.

I was searching for the topic "betrayal" for my English presentation as a project. It could be any betrayal such as political betrayal, betrayal in friendship or relationship. But here i want to tell about relationship betrayal's reasons and want to share my findings with you.

In the results of the researches in U.S.A, couples everytime find valid, required and sensible reasons to betray. Here are clear reasons for couples to betray.


-Maybe his/her feelings are over!

In long-lasting relations, sides , who lost their feelings for each other, prefer having another relation instead of break up.

-If you don't care enough with him/her!

In long-lasting relations, as time goes by, sides (especially women) don't show their feelings very often or don't care as well as before. And this makes men loose their desire.

-If you have ever forgiven him/her even for once!

Many women forgive their men when they cheat their partners once. Thus, men gain courage to betray their women for second time.

-If she grumbles very often!

If a woman never listen to man and just tries to impose her ideas, the probablity of thinking about others is very high.

-If he easily find the opportunity to cheat!

No man can easily say "no" for sex. If he has this opportunity, he won't be reluctant to use it.

-If he/she draws others' attention!

When someone feels that he/she is desired by others, this satisfies his/her ego. In this situation, being betrayed is inevitable.

-Excitement!

When it's tried once, it raises adrenaline. And this excitement is the biggest reason for cheating.

-If you have ever betrayed him/her!

When someone is betrayed one, he/she chooses the same way to take revenge.

-If sexual life is going monotonous!

Especially marriages make couples' sexual life monotonous. They find themselves in way of searching for other entertainments.


So, it means nothing worths to take risks in relationships...And i want to end my sentences with 1 of my favourite quote from Ed Harris " you can't betray yourself too often, or you become somebody else".



3 σχόλια:

administrator είπε...

ok.. researches say so..
i say that real love never ends..

agiannis είπε...

I say that since researces show that marriage will lead to cheating....my advise to you people is:
DONT GET MARRIED...if you are going to cheat each other...

Burcu είπε...

losing someone's trust is the worst thing a person can get...
don't try!